What Are AA Meetings Like?
If you’re considering attending an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting but aren’t sure what to expect, you’re not alone – this is one of the most common questions newcomers have. AA meetings provide a safe, supportive environment where people share their experiences with alcohol addiction and recovery, without judgment or pressure to participate beyond your comfort level. Whether you’re curious about getting help or supporting someone else, understanding the meeting format and atmosphere can help ease any concerns about taking that first step.
Meeting Formats
An AA meeting may take one of several forms, but at any meeting you will find alcoholics talking about what drinking did to their lives and personalities, what actions they took to help themselves, and how they are living their lives today.
Meeting formats include Big Book study, Speaker/Discussion, Step & Tradition, and Meditation.
Anonymity
No membership files or attendance records are kept, although some meetings have completely optional phone lists. You do not have to reveal anything about yourself. No one will bother you if you don’t want to come back. If you happen to meet people you know at a meeting, they will be there for the same reason you are. They will not disclose your identity to others and you will retain as much anonymity as you wish – this is one reason we call ourselves Alcoholics Anonymous.
No Dues or Fees
There are no dues or fees for AA membership. Groups usually take a voluntary collection during the meeting to cover the meeting expenses and members contribute as they are able to.
Meeting Schedule and Literature
The AA meeting schedule for Monterey is available as an online directory and can be searched by location and meeting type. You can find AA literature at meetings and in our Central Office at 546 Hartnell Street, Suite E across the street from the Post Office in Monterey.
More About AA Meetings
Learn more about AA meetings in the booklet A Newcomer Asks (PDF).
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Do I have to speak at my first AA meeting?
A: No, you are never required to speak at an AA meeting. Many newcomers choose to simply listen and observe. If asked to share, you can simply say “I’m just listening today” or “I’ll pass, thank you.” Participation is always voluntary and at your own comfort level. Open and Closed AA meetings explained >
Q: What if I’m not sure I’m an alcoholic?
A: You don’t need to label yourself or be certain about your relationship with alcohol to attend AA meetings. Many people come simply because they’re concerned about their drinking or want to explore whether they have a problem. AA welcomes anyone who has a desire to stop drinking or is questioning their alcohol use. Am I an Alcoholic? Self-assessment questions >
Q: Can I just listen without participating?
A: Absolutely. Many people attend AA meetings as observers, especially when they’re new. You can sit quietly, listen to others share their experiences, and leave whenever you feel comfortable. There’s no expectation to introduce yourself, share personal stories, or participate in discussions until you’re ready.